In every situation we have three options. The option to do right, option to do wrong and the option to do nothing at all. We were given free will by God. We have an option to serve him or not to serve. We have the ability to make sound decisions. If you are unsure of how to handle a situation, seek the guidance of the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit will never lead you wrong. You may be taken out of your comfort zone, but you will remain safe in the will of God.